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Categories: Relationships

Lately my boyfriend doesn’t make conversation with me and he reads messages and takes like 2 hours to answer them. What’s happening?
I am afraid I cannot read the mind of your boyfriend but I can tell you that there may be something wrong. I just cannot tell you what it is.
I think it is [...]

I want to transition but I am afraid of how much of my family I will lose. My Uncle is FTM and there was a huge conflict in the family because of it. My family is very important to me I don’t want to lose them but they are very close minded. What should I [...]

My boyfriend and I both don’t like each other talking to the opposite sex. He has a best friend and they had a ‘thing’. I couldn’t believe it when I walked into school and saw them arm and arm. I flipped out on him. She still likes him and he doesn’t realize that she is [...]

Categories: Health, Safety

I am 16 years old and I often feel quite bad. After food I get dreadful feelings of guilt. Then I often do not stand it and vomit food again. What I should do? Please help me!
It sounds like you may have a very serious problem. I am not a medical doctor or a therapist, [...]

My parents are really religious, and I want to come out and tell them [I am gay], but I think they will hate me.

Coming out can be a very difficult and emotionally painful experience for anyone who wishes to expose their orientation. However, coming out to someone who you know will not be immediately accepting [...]

My guardian is kicking me out. Where can I go to get help? I have no one else to stay with.
I am sorry that this is happening to you. Instead of reinventing the wheel, I thought I would give you all of the information about potential homelessness that http://www.hatchyouth.org has put together. I think it [...]

Is it ok to work in the same place as your boyfriend?
The short answer is: it depends… First, you need to find out what your company policy is like. Some companies let you date other employees unless that employee is your supervisor or you are supervising that person. Some companies have a no dating policy [...]

I’ve recently came out as bisexual in late October and I have a feeling that my parents think it’s a phase. I’m 14 years old by the way. My parents are taking me to a counselor. Also I a guy and there’s not many bi-guys, most just become bi as a stepping stone into becoming [...]

Sometimes I think that my teachers like all the pupils in my class but not me. I’ve often felt that my chemistry teacher, Mrs. Applewood, constantly asks the other students, even if I put up my hand. If I do not put up my hand, she immediately asks me. I think that’s unfair! What can [...]

How can I let my crush know I like him if I think he is shy, I am shy, and I think he likes me, but I need it to be non-verbal. Please?
How do you to expect to communicate when you are dating if you can’t talk to each other now? I am just teasing, [...]

I want to move in with my boyfriend, but my mom is really resistant about it and non-supportive along with other members of my family. What should I do? I am of legal age, I have a job and I can easily transfer my job and my school.
You are the only person who can make [...]

I like this guy (we’re teens I’m 15 and he’s 15, most likely, or 16). Anyways were good friends and he ended up finding out that I liked him but he didn’t say it back or he didn’t make it awkward. So during class one day my friend wrote him a funny letter-just stupid nothing [...]