I’m gay. My boyfriend keeps telling me I treat him like crap and all I do is try to make him happy. We don’t have romance or sex anymore and haven’t for some time. He is always mad at me and makes me feel like a big mistake. Am I doing something wrong? Does he [...]

The thing is, we can’t be open about our relationship with our other friends because he’s in grade 12 and I’m in grade 10, and people at our school are really judgmental about that sort of thing. I trust him, and I really want to kiss him, but I’ve never kissed anyone before. Last night [...]

How should I dump my boyfriend after he betrayed me and lied to me?
First, I am so, so sorry you are going through this. That sucks! He was in the wrong and you deserve better!
You have a lot of options when dumping someone who has mistreated you. You can be mean and get revenge, [...]

There is this boy in my class who i am friends with and he is extremely attractive. He doesn’t know that I am gay. For the past couple of days, I’ve really wanted to just kiss him. But I can’t. I lose my nerve and get anxious about what he’ll do. Please Help, I can’t [...]

Hi Allie, I have a question for you. So, yesterday, just before I went to bed, I was chatting to my crush, trying to make her laugh and stuff. At the end, she told me she was going to sleep, and I just casually said, “noo, don’t leave me”. She replied with a laugh then [...]

I just ended a relationship of just one year because he wanted to be alone and single. He had been feeling this way just this past week, before then I thought everything was normal. So after noticing that he had been distancing himself from me, I brought up the idea of a “break”. He agreed [...]

I have a best friend that’s bisexual & I believe that I’m bi-curious. I’m starting to grow feelings for her, is that bad? What should I do?
There is nothing wrong with being curious and/or being bi-sexual. What is happening is quite common, actually. Your friend has come out to you as bi-sexual and that can [...]

My friend thinks that she has the worst life and that she is going through a lot. She says no one will understand her and that there’s a lot I don’t know. What do I do? I want her to understand that she doesn’t have the worst life and that she should stop being negative. [...]

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Me and my guy friend played truth or dare last night and I dared him to let me have sex with him and I did. Does that make me gay?
That is definitely up for you to decide. There are men who have sex with men who do not consider themselves gay rather that they just [...]

I am in love with someone (male) and he does not know it. We are not close. I think I am going crazy. I cannot even sleep at night. What should I do?
If you are not sleeping and you are finding that you can’t stop thinking about him, it may be time to go and [...]

My girlfriend doesn’t like sex but I do so what must I do to get her to like sex because she doesn’t get turned on by anything.
If your girlfriend isn’t into having sex, then she is probably not ready to have it. Trying to convince her to have sex by using “moves” or pleading for [...]