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~ For GLBT and Questioning Teens: Answers to YOUR questions about healthy relationships ~
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I know condoms should be used for oral but all my friends think this is dork. How can I be safe without using a condom?
The easiest way to answer this question is to tell you not to engage in oral sex if you want to be safe without condoms. I wish there was a different [...]

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I wouldn’t say that all people hate gays and lesbians. In fact, I would use dislike for the majority of people who have issue with the gay and lesbian community. This is hard question to answer because so many people have their reasons from religious to societal.
The main reason I would say that there has [...]

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Before I answer this question, let’s make sure everyone knows what a dental dam is. A dental dam is a sheet of latex that acts as a barrier between the vagina and/or anus and the mouth and is most commonly used during oral sex.
I really like your question. It is a great one. It hardly [...]

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If you find that you are not being who you really are both sexually and emotionally, you will prevent yourself from having healthy, honest relationships.

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…it is really none of your business and he/she will tell you if they want you to know.

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Giving them a real world example. Without prompt, ask them about their friends and every time they talk about a friend of the opposite sex, ask them if they dated that person.

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Because I could not say it better myself, I took the checklist from Scarlet Teen (http://www.scarleteen.com), a website designed to discuss all things sex with teens.

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Although lesbian women have a lower rate of contracting STI’s, it does not make them immune from getting one.

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It is important to note that just because you are having the visions, it does not mean that you are a bad person or that you want to act them out in real life.