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Categories: Dating, Sexuality

Hi Allie, I have a ‘friend’ who I used to like and he liked me back, we were really open to each other about it and even though we were 16 he would tell me he loved me. Being in school ‘cliques’ we didn’t end up going anywhere because we thought we had nothing in [...]

Categories: Coming Out, Dating, Sexuality

Hi, I like to have sex with men. I’m male 17 years old. No one likes me cuz I’m from Iran. Please help me to find gay club zone in Houston, TX.
Hi. I am sorry that you are not being accepted because you are from Iran. That is sad to me. I hope that changes [...]

Categories: Dating, Sexuality

I’m 17 and pregnant my boyfriend is 19. What could happen to him and me?
I suspect you are wondering if your boyfriend will get in trouble for having sex with you because of your age. The answer is that depends. It depends on where you live and if someone will report it. For instance, if [...]

Categories: Sexuality

I’m really confused about my sexual orientation. I’m a girl and I have a crush on a girl for the second time. I have also had crushes on boys and I dated a boy, but I never wanted to hold his hand or kiss him. Do you think I am lesbian?
You may be or you [...]

Categories: Dating, Sexuality

On Friday, July 11, 2014, I was so glad to see so many awesome HATCH Youth at HATCH for a discussion about sex. Dr. Vanessa Schick and her super-informative friend, Caitlin, came to visit and answer any questions you all had. Unfortunately, we were not able to answer all of the great questions you had. [...]

I’m in college and I have been living with my best friend for 6 months. We slept and cuddle in the same bed and had sex multiple times, though it
never became regular. We split at the end of spring because he said he was straight after all this time. I know I have to move [...]

Categories: Sexuality

I really want to give my best friend Austin a blow job. But how can I ask him without being weird?
If you want to have oral sex with your friend, it is important to find out whether or not whether or not he would be into having his friend do something like that. You will [...]

Categories: Sexuality

I have been in a f.w.b. relationship with a girl for almost a year now, at first it was fun and we spend time with each other a lot, even though we shouldn’t have, I felt like I have gotten really close/attached to her but never told her how i felt! I knew she was [...]

Categories: Sexuality

Where is the best room in a house to kiss?
It depends. If you are practicing kissing with yourself, use your room. However, if you plan on kissing your partner, then it is best to find a room where you will not be disturbed.
Either way, a kiss in a house with other people in it [...]

Categories: Family, Sexuality

I have made a deal with my sister that I will have sex with her. I made her have to do it, but now I really do want sex with her, but I’m not sure if it’s right.
It is not OK to have sex with your sister.
Why would you want to have sex with your [...]

I met a boy and I was interested in him. After that he kept contacting me and we spook to each other and he was nice. He invited me to his house and I accepted. We had a sex and after that I ask “why are you alone?” and he said “I have girlfriend.” We [...]

Categories: Dating, Sexuality

My girlfriend wants to have sex with me but I have no clue how. HELP!!!
Having sex is not as much as a mystery as you think. You do what makes you and your girlfriend feel good. I think that is the most important part. Go slow and talk to each other. You can help each [...]