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Categories: Dating

I have a love problem and it’s awkward. Can you help me? We met a long time ago and I was in love. He knows I liked him too. I kissed him once too. It’s been a few years and we met again. What do I do? I haven’t talked to him and I’ve been [...]

Categories: Dating

My boyfriend and I are very shy and we barely talk or do anything. How do we start a conversation without it being so awkward?
Well, that does sound awkward! How did you two start dating to begin with if you two are so shy?
It may be easiest for you two to start talking online-through [...]

Categories: Dating

Hey Allie, I doubt you remember me but you were really helpful last year when you answered a few of my questions about my straight friend flirting with me. I’m now in college and have come out to my close friend group and am planning on telling my parents soon, despite how it may affect [...]

Categories: Coming Out, Dating

Hi Allie. I’m a 13 year old girl and I really like this girl in my neighborhood and I know she’s bi. I really want to ask her out but I don’t know how. Help?
Have you thought about trying to be her friend first? Lots of romances blossom from friendships. Also, it will give you [...]

Categories: Dating

My (ex) boyfriend moved to another state and broke up with me because he doesn’t like long distance. He is being very rude to me and he’s treating me like crap. I would move to his state if he wanted me to… I don’t know what to do. What can I do to make him [...]

Categories: Dating, Sexuality

Hi Allie, I have a ‘friend’ who I used to like and he liked me back, we were really open to each other about it and even though we were 16 he would tell me he loved me. Being in school ‘cliques’ we didn’t end up going anywhere because we thought we had nothing in [...]

Categories: Dating

My boyfriend broke up with me so he could date one of my best friends. I was so sad not at my friend but my ex!!! The good news is that my friend is a true one because as soon as she saw him she screamed at him for breaking up with me for her [...]

I have been ’speaking’ to this guy for like a year and we get on really well, he’s a close friend now but he’s asked ‘nips for nips’ three times. I would never send pictures and I get really angry when he asks and he knows that by the way I react but he still [...]

How do I stop being bitchy to the guy I use to like? He and I were good friends last term and we would talk a lot but ever since he found out I like him I started avoiding him, now we barely talk. I want to be friends again and I want him to [...]

Categories: Dating

So this boy likes me and I kinda like him back but I recently found out that my childhood friend likes me and I have always liked him. Is it okay to like two different boys who are the same age as me and they both like me? I’m also afraid that if I choose [...]

Categories: Dating

My crush sent me a heart and sent me pictures of her self where she isn’t where but a top but she is wearing a bra. Does she like me?
I would say so. I am a little sad that her way of telling you is a picture of herself without her top on, but that [...]

Categories: Dating

Hey so this year I met my first love. We were so in love and he was my best friend, we had issues so we were on again and off again. I cheated on him one time and he forgave me and we dated for another couple of months. I kissed another boy recently and [...]