Well…that depends! There are a lot of factors that could make it an enjoyable experience and a lot that can make it a nightmare.
To make it enjoyable there has to be a few factors. First, you have to want to do it and second you have to like and be sexually attracted to the [...]

Way before we broke up, I sent my x a photo of me that I don’t want anyone else to see. I’m afraid he will show it to others. Help!
I don’t know because you didn’t say but I am guessing that this photo has some nudity and that is why you don’t want it getting [...]

I just came out but I don’t know what to call myself? Everyone else calls him/herself something but I don’t know what I am. I am a lesbian who is not really girly but also not really boyish. What am I?
I am pretty sure you are talking about labels and are trying to find a [...]

My mom can be great sometimes but sometimes she just gets really angry and frustrated with me, blows up, and then gets out of the house for a few hours, leaving me feeling hurt and angry. What should I do?
This sounds like a case of poor communication between you and your Mother. One or the [...]

I want to act, but when I told my mom she laughed at me and told me actors were really weird, she said that you needed connections to act in movies, I walked away feeling really hopeless?
I know it doesn’t feel good when your parents or friends don’t fully 100% support you and your dreams. [...]

My boyfriend and I want to move in together. My Mom told me that she would be mad at me if I did. She says it is too fast. We have been together for 4 ½ months. Who is right?
Good question. I cannot answer who is right or wrong here but what I can say [...]

I work at a fast food place and one of my supervisors makes a lot of gay jokes that I don’t like. I am gay and I don’t want to come out at work but I don’t want to listen to him anymore either. What do I do?
I think this is a very common problem. [...]

Sometimes when I feel bad about myself I drink too much. It makes me feel better but then I feel worse in the morning. I don’t want to drink anymore. What can I do to feel better?
I think what you are asking for are coping skills but more important than that I am concerned about [...]

I’m 18 and gay. My friends pick on me because I haven’t had sex with a lot of guys. They tell me that I’m not gay if I don’t sleep with a lot of people. I don’t want to. Do I have to?
This question makes me sad because it illustrates that the man box is [...]

This is a tricky question to answer because I don’t know the guy. But here are ways you can tell a guy you like him:
· Come right out and say it: “I like you and I was wondering if you felt the same about me?” This one requires that you are willing to accept the [...]

I am an attempted suicide survivor and lately those same thoughts and feelings have been hard to ward off. I would like to get help but I don’t have insurance, and I am scared to go, because debt is one of the main things that causes anxiety for me. What can I do?
First, I would [...]